We turn it on and start watching Star Wars: Yes, it can be both pleasurable as well as awkward and nothing can prepare you for it. The list of what works and what wins constantly gets longer and better. Take your clothes off, get under the covers and just talk for a little while. The Christian sex book said to try giving her an orgasm with my finger first; I rubbed her raw. Even after being married for a few years we sometimes seem to forget that it is just a thing we can do instead of watching old Futurama or Top Chef.
Both of us were virgins.
First wedding night of hot bride Anikka Albrite and her hunky groom
Do you have any tips for grooming down there for ladies? Were there things that could be better? Nine years later, we have had four kids and LOTs of practice. You might do it out of love but he might not. I call bullshit on that. Strengthening Marriage through Sexual Fulfillment… Lots and lots and lots of options there.