But even among couples who report being "extremely happy," an astonishing one-fourth rarely or never get it on. I ended up getting my first girlfriend pregnant when I was 17 and marrying her, so for the first six years I was having sex with only one person. Even when you were married, you were holding back, in case you got pregnant again. Please return to AARP. It's quite amazing and the serum not bad either! Boonstra HD, Meeting the sexual and reproductive health needs of adolescents in school-based health centers, Guttmacher Policy Review, 18 1: Having sex after pregnancy for the first time can feel daunting, but it doesn't have to be.
We kept a very broad definition of sex.
The magic number: how many people have you slept with?
That may seem hard to believe, given, well, everything you've just read, but as a mother myself, I know it to be true. Are you sure you want to go there? There's clearly one big plus to being older, in that intimacy benefits from time and a lack of toddlers and teenagers. I had a breakdown at That destroyed a lot of the pleasure for women. For the last 10 years, our marriage had lacked intimacy.