Your friend who told you about menstrual flow is also grossly misinformed. Indrani Soemardjan via Creative Commons. So, even if there were any stock in all this loose-vagina mumbo-jumbo, or if there is a time later in your life when muscle tone is an issue like after pregnancyit's still nothing to get freaked out about. It has notches, folds and clefts, even in its virgin state. While certainly, they can lose tone over time usually just with aging and hormonal changes: Does female virginity still carry currency in the 21st century? I haven't had sex and yet it feels like I'm stretched out or something.
Did my previous masturbation de-virginize me?
I'm 14, and a virgin, but can fit fingers inside my vagina: is something wrong with me?
Some believe that any disturbance to the hymen will result in its tearing. Your friend who told you about menstrual flow is also grossly misinformed. I'm so confused and embarrassed that I don't know better. While certainly, they can lose tone over time usually just with aging and hormonal changes: This is why sexologists, gynaecologists and general practitioners alike are often reluctant to be asked for their opinion on whether or not a woman is a virgin based on the condition of her hymen. Hence it is not uncommon for girls to be advised to be careful when riding a bicycle or for young women to avoid using a tampon for fear that they can break their hymen.