He married you, not the floozie on the camera side of the web cam. Your marriage changes from a special relationship to a commodity for consumption by others. The bottom line, for me, is this: The account is found in the first couple of chapters of the book. She asked a week in advance.
You are wise in considering how you would may react.
10 Pros & Cons of Swinging
The scars from such an experience are deep. Anytime you get close, there is a risk of emotional involvement. She is near the brink of a mental breakdown because he threatens to divorce her and keep their child, if she does not continue to be involved. The lifestyle versions of commitment, trust and loyalty are often counter-productive from what is needed for a long-term healthy marriage. It can help you move past the memories and fears associated with what happened.